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Wow...long thread...and I'm a newbie here, so please forgive me for not reading the full thread and instead just jumping right in with my thoughts, be them reiterations of someone else or not.
First off, I myself am a homosexual, and I can attest to those people who say it's not a matter of choice or will power. I tried for years, trying everything I could think of, to make myself straight...but I finally accepted my homosexuality, though I still craved for some magic button that would change that aspect of myself....that is, until I learned that I shouldn't have to feel ashamed of myself. I never chose who I feel attracted to. If we could all have that choice, then adultery wouldn't be a problem, because married people would simply "turn off" their attraction to everyone in the world except their spouses. Moreover, my homosexuality goes much deeper than simple sexual attraction--there's a strong emotional attraction. To put it simply, I feel much more comfortable and natural with the idea of having a close, intimate relationship with another man than I do with a woman. It's just how I was programmed.
I'm glad to see the maturity I have seen with this topic, and that so many are willing to agree to disagree. This is where too many fail, leading to how those "holier-than-thou" types become born. I think a huge problem in America these days is that there are a select few groups that represent an extremely small (and extremely narrow-minded) percentage of the population who happen to be shouting the loudest, grabbing the most media attention, and therefore setting the mold for stereotypes on all sides of the playing field. The extreme right-wing Fundies, such as Pat Robertson and Fred Phelps, are putting up a show of "I know better than you, my God is better than yours, and I'm just plain better than you, so nyah nyah," which is extremely callous and immature, to say the least. On the other side of the spectrum, however, are people who claim erroneously that all Christians hate gays and "accepting gays" means to completely love the idea of homosexuality and homosexuals flaunting their sexuality in broad public.
Needless to say, the more people believe one stereotype or the other (depending on where they themselves stand), the worse the situation becomes because it makes it harder and harder for people to agree, because we're all caught up in wanting to throttle the other side for being immovably prejudice. It's pretty much the same reason why prayer in schools is still such a hot-button issue.
The fact is, of course, there are so many who are willing to live and let live, to believe one thing and allow others to believe something completely differently without throwing a huge hissy fit on a soapbox. This, I believe, is ultimately the answer, but if the media keeps concentrating solely on the extremes, it looks as if this battle between right and left wings will continue to heat itself up until it reaches some sort of (probably [but hopefully not] rather destructive) explosion.
So what's the answer? I don't know myself, but I think for starters, people need to stop getting so wrapped up in details. A huge way that the holier-than-thou types keep using the Bible or Koran or Torah or whatever religious text to promote their own hatred, bigotry, and prejudice is by scrutinizing the little details--one or two passages from an entire chapter, from an entire book, from an entire volume of books (e.g. the Bible)--and using it (twisting it?) to serve their own innate urge to be "better" than someone else.
I just wonder what it is that causes people to act this way, to actively seek out others that they can put in the limelight just to say how much "better" they are by comparison. Maybe I'm just crazy for believing that ultimately, no one is overall better than anyone else, even if one person may be better at a certain thing (such as sports or history) than someone else.
I think religion is a wonderful thing, because despite the wars it has evidently caused, despite its improper use to promote personal, often greedy agendas, I think that religion has a great value in our lives as human beings...at least, when treated from a standpoint that it gives us guidelines more than exact facts.
Facts are science, and science is certainly not religion. We like the answers to everything, to control everything, because we fear the unknown, and when we don't control something, we can't predict what it will do...and we have a tendency to expect the worst of any situation. But we don't have the answers to everything, and I doubt we ever will. I doubt our minds are capable of comprehending every last detail in the known (and unknown) universe.
Sorry if this was long-winded and a bit off-topic, but I think it was necessary to show where I was coming from in all of this.
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