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CR. I'm sincerely trying to say this as nicely as possible, but if you want TEF or anyone else to respect you, then you need to throw some respect back our way.
When wasn't I doing that? I began correcting TEF. I wasn't showing a lack of respect, just correcting him on something. Then he showed a lack of respect. Plus, I'm not the one trying desperately to ignore history here.
I'm sorry, but if reinforcing fact and history is a "Lack of respect", then I'd rather be dis"respect"ful.
Yes - you have a right to acknowledge the traditions and follow a certain line of thinking as you please, but so do we.
But it's not "equal means, equal ends". The truth is that Christmas started out as a Pagan, and not Christian, celebration that had a couple of words tip ex'd out and written over.
You have to acknowledge that it began as pagan tradition becuase well, it did. If you fight history I find it very hard to respect your "beliefs". I want Christians to come to terms, for once, with the fact that paganism did and still does a lot of good for the world instead of using the pathetic "Well we respect them of course but we still *Really* hate everything they stand for" malarky that's so obviously on the tip of their tounges. I'm tired of X-ians running away from things other religions did for them that their ancestors tried to destroy.
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To TEF, and many other Christians (myself included), Christmas = Christ. To you and others, it does not. Agree to disagree.
I said that it's perfectly fine. The problem is that he says she doesn't give a crap what the Pagans did even though there wouldn't be a christmas without them. I find that extremely crude and offensive and I think you're trying too hard to defend him.
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Yes, Christmas traditions DO have their roots in Paganism. We can't change that, only acknowledge it. However, Christmas itself WAS created by Christians with the intention of celebrating Christ's birth.
Why would you want to change it?
This is actually completely and utterly historically incorrect, as I'm sure DeathlyPallor can show you. Christmas was just a "painting over" of Yule and Saturnalia. All they did was change the name and the God whose birth was celebrated.
Christmas wasn't "created" with the intent to celebrate the birth of christ, it was hijacked in order to get people to convert.