InterruptorJones wrote:
This thread has been quiet for awhile, but I wanted to point everybody at this NYT op-ed piece:
God and Sex.
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If we're going to cherry-pick biblical phrases and ignore the central message of love, then perhaps we should just ban marriage altogether?
I read the article. This guy is no biblical scholar by any stretch of the imagination. He does point out, however, that the Bible does in places condemn homosexuality.
His argument that the Bible actually describes a few gay relationships in a positive light is false. The biblical term "beloved" ("agapetos" in the Greek) means very close friend, trusted companion or family member. A husband and wife can be "agapetoi", but so can a father and a son, or a brother and a sister. As for David and Jonathan, people in the Middle East express natural brotherly affection the same way still today (some places in Europe, too). Only in America are we so uptight about natural affection that we automatically assume they are gay.
Even his opening statement, "So when God made homosexuals who fall deeply, achingly in love with each other, did he goof?" is entirely misleading. God did not create people with the intention of making them gay. You could just as easily ask the question, "So when God made people who brutally murder others, did he goof?" Sin is always the fault of a fallen, corrupt human race, not the Creator who made us.
That final remark about banning marriage is based on a gross exaggeration of St. Paul's message. St. Paul commends marriage, but he also recognizes celibacy as a legitimate lifestyle for those who choose it (he himself was celibate). He only recommends it for those who can live it; he does not require it.
Incidentally, the article's title is misleading. It's not about God's attitude toward sex, but about religious attitudes toward a specific sexual orientation. It says nothing about the nature of the physical union between a man and his wife, but there's a whole book dedicated to it (Song of Songs), not to mention all the places which speak of the two becoming one flesh. A better title might have been "The Bible and Homosexuality" or "Religious Attitudes Toward Same-Sex Marriages".