What's her face wrote:
I doubt if Christ would wish his ministers to tell Africa - a continent dying of AIDS - the lies they tell about the use of contraception.
Hmm, no one addressed this. So I guess I'll take a stab at it.
Who says that the use of contraceptives is okay? The Protestant Church? Many people claim this, "Oh, we're not Catholic, so birth control is okay." WELL...
That ignores the fact that EVERY MAJOR PROTESTANT THEOLOGIAN said birth control was sinful and evil. Quotes? Why yes.
Martin Luther - "[T]he exceedingly foul deed of Onan, the basest of wretches . . . is a most disgraceful sin. It is far more atrocious than incest and adultery. We call it unchastity, yes, a sodomitic sin. For Onan goes in to her; that is, he lies with her and copulates, and when it comes to the point of insemination, spills the semen, lest the woman conceive. Surely at such a time the order of nature established by God in procreation should be followed. Accordingly, it was a most disgraceful crime. . . . Consequently, he deserved to be killed by God. He committed an evil deed. Therefore, God punished him."
John Calvin - "The voluntary spilling of semen outside of intercourse between man and woman is a monstrous thing. Deliberately to withdraw from coitus in order that semen may fall on the ground is doubly monstrous. For this is to extinguish the hope of the race and to kill before he is born the hoped-for offspring"
John Wesley - "Those sins that dishonor the body are very displeasing to God, and the evidence of vile affections. Observe, the thing which he [Onan] did displeased the Lord—and it is to be feared; thousands, especially of single persons, by this very thing, still displease the Lord, and destroy their own souls"
Not much of a leg for Protestants to stand on, huh? Every single one of the fathers of the Protestant faith said birth control was sinful, evil, and to be despised. So...why do Protestants believe now that birth control is okay? Ah, look, Wikipedia has the answer:
"This condemnation was relaxed by the Anglican Communion at the 1930 Lambeth Conference, and most Protestant groups followed suit over the course of the 20th century. . ."
Oh, for the record, I don't believe birth control is sinful at all. However, I don't dare say the Catholic church's teachings against it are lies, because nowhere in Scritpure does it state birth control is okay. The only thing we have to go on is Onan's example, which seems to indicate birth control is wrong (though one could argue Onan was not punished for the deed itself, but for failing to fulfill his obligation to his deceased brother, but that gets kinda complicated).
Wow, that was a long post...
As far as praising God, that doesn't always mean you're going to have a smile on your face and be cheerful. Job, as you mentioned (and Didymus as well) went through horrible trials, and I don't recall him skipping along and and humming "How great thou art." No, Job continued to place his trust and faith in God, and that is how he praised God, not by being cheerful and singing loudly.
It's absurd to assume that when something a friend of mine went through, where his entire family was killed, that he should stand up tall in church and sing with a smile on his face, because he hurts. And God knows he's hurting, and God doesn't sit there and say, "I know everyone you love just died, but be happy, darn it!" God merely requires that we stay true to Him and continue to live a Godly life...and THAT is more worshipful to Him than any song you could sing, I think.